-Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints.” — Psalm 116:15
In the tapestry of life, some threads shine brighter than others, weaving a narrative filled with joy, laughter, and love. One such vibrant thread was Mr. Allen Yinka Akinyemi, a remarkable friend and brother. On February 28, as we celebrate his life, we embark on a heartfelt journey through the memories he created, the love he shared, and the indelible mark he left on our hearts. While we say goodbye, we also choose to honor his spirit and the legacy of joy he has gifted us all. His laughter was contagious, often echoing through the air like music.
Daddy Attleboro, as my children often called him was more than just a friend; he was a brother to me and father to many. He effortlessly blends camaraderie and kinship. His laughter echoed in every corner of our gatherings, leaving a trail of joy in its wake. Each moment spent with him felt like a new adventure, filled with warmth and genuine connection. He had a unique ability to make everyone feel special, whether through a heartfelt compliment or a spontaneous plan to enjoy the day. He had an innate understanding of the power of friendship. From late-night conversations to shared dreams of the future, Mr. Akinyemi nurtured bonds that transcended time and distance.
His loyalty was unwavering, a testament to his character and the love he held for those around him. In celebrating Mr. Akinyemi, we are reminded of the beauty of brotherhood that he exemplified every day, creating an unbreakable bond that will forever resonate in our hearts.
One day, he called me and asked that I gather everybody together because he had something very important for us. The excitement at the other end was infections to the point that I started thinking he must have won a lottery. When he showed up, he asked that I turn my computer on and to my bewilderment he popped out a compact disc sleeve and placed the CD in the computer for us to sing along. Guess what he brought – Hezekiah Walker.
We’re all a part of God’s body.
Stand with me, agree with me.
We’re all a part of God’s body.It is his will, that every need be supplied.
You are important to me, I need you to survive.
You are important to me, I need you to survive.
I pray for you, You pray for me.
I love you, I need you to survive.
I won’t harm you with words from my mouth.
I love you, I need you to survive.
It is his will, that every need be supplied.
He drove from Massachusetts to Rhode Island to come an sing with us about friendship and love and these lyrics summed up almost everything about him. This is his favorable song. You can see that he magnanimous and altruistic to a fault. He will go extra-mile for people even if it means sacrificing his own career. I have never seen someone so loving and caring like Mr. Akinyemi. I remember attending an award ceremony with him at Boston University Teaching Hospital (BMC) where he was recognized for mentoring and lifting others. His colleagues told me so many great things he did for others and how he helped them climb their career lattices. From BMC to Boston Children Hospital, Cape cod hospital and CharterCARE Health Partners , he left indelible marks of altruism.
- Much as he loved people, he hated injustice and disrespect with passion. His heart wasn’t only full of joy — it was full of conviction. He despised injustice and disrespect in any form or disguise. He stood up for people, spoke truth when it mattered, and refused to let wrongs go unchallenged. His courage inspired us to be better, to do better, to treat others with dignity and fairness.
- If you really know him very well, you must have heard him say ‘ a lè sọ nítorí pé a fẹ́ jẹ màálù, ká pè ní bòòdá’ – Integrity over Appetite: Mr. Akinyemi believed that your desires or “hunger” should not lead you to flatter those who do not deserve it or to pretend something is what it is not. It is not in his character to flatter anyone. He will not hesitate to praise or encourage you but it is not in his ethos to flatter anyone.
Rest in God’s eternal peace,
Your spirit lives on, your love remains, and your light will never fade.
Your Brother.
Here is the GoFundMe link for those who want to be part of this celebration.
Saturday, February 28, 2026
Saturday, February 28, 2026
